If you have not noticed the vast majority of men in the United States are overweight. And at least 30% of these overweight men you can consider to be obese! In this lengthy post we answer the question of: How fat guys can get girlfriends. And, yes overweight men can have a very robust and exciting dating life, but…
You’re the average American guy, you’re 36 years old and one day you find yourself sitting at your local sports bar having a beer and burger with your best buddy. Basketball is on the TV above the bar and there are numerous very attractive women all around you enjoying their evening.
You could be sitting at the bar wearing a clown suit and still they would not even notice you are there. You don’t exist to them!! You are the fat guy that repulses them.
Why do you think that is?
And, if you have no clue, then you are truly a moron! You stand 5 feet 11 inches tall, you’re wearing a nice tee shirt, faded jeans with your classic tennis shoes purchased some seven years ago.
Also, let’s not forget you weigh 278 pounds as of last week’s doctor’s office weigh-in.
You are the typical American fat boy. You have been fat since you can remember. You were always the last one picked for sports teams during gym class. You were the guy who had to settle for the fat chick to take to the prom. And now you are the guy who has not gotten laid in over 7 years!
CLICK HERE! If you are a man who thinks of himself as being overweight and is tired of not being able to get a girlfriend then this report will cut to the chase and get you firmly pointed in the right direction. By following the steps contained in this very informative report you’ll see that getting a girlfriend is very doable.
But you say to yourself, just about everyone nowadays is somewhat overweight, which makes you feel at-ease with the situation. However all this really boils down to is the fact that there are fewer attractive women who would be of interest to you as most women your age are also fat. Bummer!!
As you sit there at the bar with your best buddy (who is also very overweight) you are telling him you’re about to make the change. You are going to do whatever it takes to not only get laid but to find a girl that you would want to settle down with. You are ready… and you are very determined!
The problem: you are not sure how to go about doing this! I mean you are truly confused as to what you need to do so women start to not only notice you but are truly attracted to you!
Remembering back to the last time any woman went out of their way to even speak to you… Well, you just can’t remember that ever happening.
All you know is that you need to make some very radical changes in order to become the man you truly want to be. Not sure what those changes are, but at least you are at the point you recognize changes need to happen.
You are in luck! Here is your game plan! Follow it, but be prepared to work extremely hard and you will get laid. Don’t follow it, revert back to the pathetic fat loser you currently are and you will be alone the rest of your life. Your choice!!
Your Plan of Action: Six Months to Stud!
That’s right – six months!! Six short months to change your body, make yourself more appealing and work towards becoming a success in life. All this so you can be the man women want! (Updated: June 13, 2016)
What needs to happen!
Congratulations you fully realize you need to make a very sizable change in your life. But I’m curious if you truly understand all the changes that need to take place. Here’s why:
ONE: Women are not attracted to fat dumpy men.
TWO: Women are not interested in spending time with men who are emotionally weak!
THREE: Women are not interested in unclean smelly guys who dress like they did in high school.
FOUR: Women are not interested in men who are boring and “uninteresting”.
FIVE: Women much prefer men who are successful and lead full lives.
Translation: Women WILL NOT date YOU!!!
What needs to happen is for you to address all of the above areas and be very serious about facilitating change in your life. People do this all the time. They transition from weak, pathetic and fat to fit, successful stud!
Here’s an article about one guy I know who did just that! Click Here!
This will be hard, frustrating and extremely challenging at every level.
There will be many days that you will want to give up and go back to the same comfortable loser job, bowl of nachos and comfortable couch.
But you won’t! You want to be the MAN!… and you are committed to making this happen!
Here’s a great book on this this topic:
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A New Focus
Are you ready? Brace yourself!
For the next six months you will NOT be focusing on dating women. You will not seek any girl out and fantasize about her. Women do not exist. They are now invisible to you.
You are now going to only focus on yourself, improving who you are in order to become the MAN you truly think you are. Women are now a distraction for you… they only become important if they assist in this process in a non-romantic way.
Your focus for the next six months is on getting fit – VERY FIT!!
Your focus for the next six months is getting on track to be a success – financial and social.
Your focus on the next six months is to get educated about social dynamics and how attraction can work in your favor.
You will be putting yourself through a complete overhaul. You go into the shop being an old ’82 Ford Mustang and come out six months later the sleek Dodge Viper… you know the one, the car that hisses when it goes down the road and everyone stares at!!
That will be you! It will be you because you are manning up to make this change!
Just by acknowledging you need to make significant changes in your life to become more attractive to women is a huge first step! Most men fail to recognize this and wonder why they are constantly alone and completely sexless in their lives.
The key to shifting your attitude to become more appealing, not only to women, but by everyone you come in contact with, is to constantly move your life forward. You are no longer this guy who isn’t thinking about bettering your life; but now you are a new dynamic guy who is looking to better your life and everyone’s around you!
You were once someone who constantly failed to take action. You let fear tailor the quality of your life. People’s opinions of you really mattered to the point you became what they thought you were.
You are now going to be a guy who is constantly looking forward. You are seeking new adventures, friendships and challenges like never before.
You view life as one big opportunity filled with exotic locations, interesting people and nice material possessions.
Life is now worth living and women are looked at as only icing on the cake. Your life is what you want it to be – for YOU!
You are now totally in control and fully understand your happiness and success in life are totally on you… not some woman who you get excited about… but, you!!
You are now officially holding yourself accountable for everything. No more blaming your parents! No more blaming your ex-wife! No more blaming your high school experience! It’s time to move forward!
You will change your attitude because you WANT to. You will change your attitude because you HAVE to! You WILL change your attitude!
One key step in your new attitude is to remove people from your life who are not positive with you.
Negative friends and family members are best left on the periphery only for you to make new friends who are supportive and encouraging!
You will also start to be much more supportive and encouraging to your friends, relatives and neighbors as you now are a new man.
A new man with a new attitude of “can do”, “will do”… I am the MAN! I am capable others can depend on!!
Focus on making this new attitude a huge priority and people will start to see you in a new and different light… especially women!
Here is an excellent book on building confidence:
CLICK HERE! In the pages of “Self Esteem Self Help” we give you numerous suggestions that WILL improve your fledgling self esteem and self confidence. Very quickly you will notice how easy it is to be the very confident and self assured person you truly are.
Loss of weight
Attitude is EVERYTHING! But for a fat guy (and I hope this term pisses you off, by the way!) it is their weight that interrupts their self perceptions and beliefs. What I am about to say may actual get you mad.. or perhaps depressed! Why? Because it is the truth!
Fat men are… pathetic!!! They are weak. They lack inner strength to be fit. Food and low self esteem control their lives. HOW PATHETIC!!!!
Only in America is there this obesity problem. America, land of welfare, fat and irresponsible men who choose the lazy way instead of being MEN.
With over 70% of Americans classified as being “overweight” no wonder you are where you are!
Our society seems to be a reflection of who you are now. It is the new norm! Sad but true!
My wife and I were walking through Shinjuku, a large area within Tokyo with hundreds of thousands of people crowding the streets every day, and we made a game of trying to count the number of “fat people” we would come across during our four hour walk. Guess how many? Five!! Only FIVE!!! Three were practicing Sumo professionals while the other two were… westerners!
Why are we Americans FAT while the Japanese and Chinese are thin? What is it about our culture and society that enables men and women to become obese? Is it our culture or is it the INDIVIDUAL??!!
No one puts a gun to your head forcing you to eat five thousand calories a day! No One!! People eat this amount of food because of psychological factors and learned behaviors. They don’t stop eating, even if their life depends on it because they are truly PATHTIC and WEAK!!
Bottom line here: if you don’t drop the weight and get very fit… you WILL NOT ATTRACT the type of women you want to have in your life.
To lose weight you need to focus on diet, cardio, weight training and rest. I will not go into a whole dissertation as to how to go about this but will give you a list of resources to guide you in the most proper direction here:
CLICK HERE! “How to Get Ripped Abs: Six Pack Abs in 6 Weeks” is a short but very information packed guide to get you where you want to be: ripped with a six pack! In this guide you will be given the exact steps to take to get you to the point of having a real six pack.
It is all up to you! I would highly recommend finding an accountability coach to keep you on track in your efforts to lose weight.
If you didn’t already know this, losing weight by proper exercise and diet will, in of its self really enhance your attitude and self-confidence! Give your workout plan six months and stick with it because it will pay dividends down the road!!
And, keep this in the back of your mind: Women are very attracted to “very fit” men. They are repulsed by fat slobs!
Strive for Success
Up to this point we have tackled your attitude and got you in the process of getting very fit… at least we hope we are. If not, well, just give up and be pathetic and substandard the rest of your life!
In addition to the attitude and fitness objectives from above you need now to start focusing on becoming successful in your career, business or entrepreneurial pursuits.
Being incredibly fit and having a great “can do” attitude may not be enough to attract the type of woman you want to be with.
Women truly want men who are that and more! They want a man to be a financial success and show initiative and drive.
Women want men who live life with a purpose. They want the man to be able to have the financial ability to take care of them if need be. They want the man to be, well… a MAN!
Starting TODAY you will start setting goals for yourself in all areas of your life so you can start moving forward and plot that course to success that has eluded you for years. These goals will tackle these four main areas:
Financial – involves career, investing and business startups
Family – improving relationships with family members
Fitness – Getting in shape and staying there
Social – gaining new friendships and life experiences
You will make long term and short term goals for each of the above categories monitoring your progress on a daily basis. This is what most successful people do that catapults them to a very high quality of life few experience.
I challenge you to take 15 minutes a day and start this goal setting process. I am very positive you will be very glad you did!!
As far as being a financial success really explore this particular goal category in detail. Look at where you are at in your career.
Are you satisfied with your income and possible promotion opportunities? If not, then it may be time to either get back to school or to start that business!
Remember: Beautiful women will only date successful men! Be one of these guys!!
Here is a book very worth reading on setting goals!!!
CLICK HERE! “Goal Setting: The Definitive Guide to Setting Goals” by Christopher Quinn is probably the only book on goal setting you’ll ever need to read! Being a very successful business person Mr. Quinn has used all the information available today in learning how to set goals to get him where he wanted to be in life.
Improved Overall Appearance
Now that you are getting fit and setting goals for your self you need to start to look at you overall appearance. If you follow my advice here and get so fit to get a set of six pack abs in six months you will need to make sure you dress like a truly successful, attractive man should dress.
Get familiar with what styles are in today and what colors work best for your skin tone.
The old adage that “clothes makes the man” is very true!
Stop with wearing t-shirts and jeans and get into the habit of wearing clothes that make you stand out and look polished and successful.
If you have pale skin get a tan. If you have shaggy hair get it styled. If you only own tennis shoes get some nice casual shoes that are not white. You get my drift? Dress like the MAN you are morphing into!!
Read this book to get some “style”!
1. Detail’s Mens Style Manual by Daniel Peres – CLICK HERE
Change Your Location/ Reinvent Yourself
I have met a large number of people who have moved from one part of the country to another in an effort to re-invent themselves. They feel that when they leave Boise, Idaho to move to Las Vegas they are leaving the boring and unsuccessful guy behind and upon arrival in Vegas they have a new clean slate to work off of.
This may be something for you to consider! Perhaps you are from Baltimore, you weigh 275 and you are depressed because you are just.. pathetic.
You decide to disappear for 5 or 6 months to start the above “transformation” from dud to stud, getting very fit, dropping your weight down to 190 lbs. and getting your education lined up to better your career opportunities.
Then you realize that despite your six months of hard work to become the “new you” you are still viewed by those around you as the same guy before you started this journey!
How can this be? You are a new and capable man! You are no longer the fat guy who drank beer and slept in late every day they once knew!
The way to avoid this is to make the move to another local and instantly become the man you have just transformed into.
The people in this new city will only know you as Mr. Success, and will not have any memories of the fat loser from six months earlier!
This move to a new city could be what puts the cap on your successful transformation and thus will help you sustain this positive forward direction you are taking your life!
Now, in this new city or town, all your new friends will only know you as the guy who has his shit tighter. They know you as the fit guy they see running early in the morning. They know you as the confident guy who has a pretty girl on his arm when out on the town. They know you as the guy who just got that great high-level job at the University.
Here are two books that cover this topic in detail:
CLICK HERE! Are you wanting to reinvent yourself because you are depressed? How about wanting to make life changing efforts because you are newly divorced? Or do you want to reinvent your life because you turned 40, or 50, and you think your life has gone nowhere?
You now have a fairly good blueprint to move from the guy who can’t get laid to the guy who has women approaching him. Follow this advice, use the resources included in this article and stay the course.
Lose the weight, work on your attitude, set goals and become a success. Then the girls will take notice!!
article: How fat guys can get girlfriends!
( Updated: 06/13/2016 )