So your buddy accused you of being boring. Worse yet your last girlfriend dumped you because she got tired of spending time with you. What?! This article will discuss ways on how to become more interesting. Because women want interesting and challenging guys!!
And to be honest you are certainly not interesting, especially to the ladies. So what can you do? What exactly is an “interesting guy”, you wonder. Not to worry, you can change that and really start living life like most men only dream about.
Who should read this?
If you made it this far in the article then you must be wanting to make some changes in your life.
You have determined that you are “bored” and you are “boring”!
This is the first step, as most guys are to proud to acknowledge they are “boring” to be around.
If you work a nine to five job, go home and make a nice meal and then turn on the tube… well, you’re boring!
Especially if you are under the age of 40!!
If you spend your weekends on the couch playing video games with your buddies and then have Sunday dinner with the folks… guess what?
You are boring!
An Inflated Example of an Interesting Guy
I really get a kick out of the Dos Equis commercials; you know, the ones with the “Most Interesting Man in the World”. While he is on the extreme end of the spectrum of being “interesting” he is really not all that far off the mark.
You see, he’s interesting because he is LIVING LIFE! He is out and about doing challenging things, surrounding himself with interesting people and having a fun, adventurous time.
You can be just as interesting, albeit on a more realistic scale… but far more “interesting” than you are today – or ever, just by following this Dos Equis commercial example.
Starting NOW put pen to paper and make a list of things you always wanted to do and don’t stop until you get to 100 items on your paper. Then on another sheet of paper think about a couple of your friends or neighbors who seem to have very interesting lives and list what they do that makes it so interesting to you.
On top of this list I am going to give you some quick suggestions here that might help get your juices flowing.
- Backpack through Thailand
- Take up chess
- Take a French cooking class
- Set a goal to have six pack abs in three months
- Get involved with acting classes
- Join Toastmasters
- Take a trip to Singapore and eat at a new fine dining restaurant every night.
- Volunteer with a Non-Profit that helps disadvantaged kids.
- Take an evening Philosophy class at your community college
- Learn to play tennis and enter a tournament in another city
These are just 10 quick things you could do to become a more interesting guy! I bet if you finish your list and make it to one hundred you will be surprised by all the things you can do but never acted on.
Women like to be with men who take action in their lives! We are usually defined by what we do for a living by those around us. But we all envy the guy who just came back from Belize and surfed the Caribbean!
Be one of those guys! Get interesting. Get fascinating! Get busy!!! The rewards will be so worth it… with the greatest reward being you wondering how you got so interesting!
Here’s a video that talks about becoming more interesting! Enjoy the video.
How to become more interesting!