So claims one of my coworkers who has just started dating a woman who still lives with her parents and siblings. Having the sister flirt with him can be very cool if she is hot… but then again, the tension this can cause this new relationship can seriously cause some concern!
My friend seems somewhat troubled by this unwanted attention by the sister but seems powerless to be able to do anything about it. He confided in me that he IS very attracted to the sister as she is younger and quite the little hot box.
Unfortunately, his new girlfriend has yet to pick up on the sister’s behavior towards her boyfriend, thus at this time there is no real problem… yet!
He believes it will just be a matter of time when this younger sister makes some inappropriate comment or advance and it will be witnessed by the girlfriend.
He is very aware that when this happens he may be partially blamed for the sister’s interest in him.
Not only that, he is concerned that when his new girlfriend sees her sister flirting with him the sibling relationship they currently have will start to unravel; and he does not want to be responsible for that.
Her Sister is Flirting with Me! HELP!!
My advice to my coworker is to speak to the girlfriend about the flirting sister, acknowledging that it’s happening and put a friendly and positive spin on the topic. Better [easyazon-image align=”right” asin=”1624090079″ locale=”us” height=”300″ src=”http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51lcde5EPsL.jpg” width=”180″]to have an early conversation addressing the issue than to wait for the later conversation where it will more likely be an all out argument!
Lastly, once the conversation takes place he (my coworker) needs to remove himself from her sisters company. I instructed him to not spend any time with her family when the sister is present, thus removing the risk of the girlfriend noticing any unwanted attention from the sister.
Have you ever had this problem? I can only remembering having this problem once when I was in my teens. However, it was a nice problem to have at the time as I ended up dating both sisters!
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