So my wife and I were at this party yesterday when one of her acquaintances approached us and wanted to know what the secret was to finding a long term boyfriend. Looking at this particular woman, who happens to be just about 42 or 43 years old, at first glance you would be surprised she would have any problem finding a quality boyfriend.
This young lady is strikingly beautiful, very physically fit, tan and gorgeous! She also happens to be Japanese with a very exotic look about her. I do know if I were still single I would definitely be trying to take this lady out myself. No doubt about it!
As our conversation with her progressed I learned some things about her that I was not previously aware of… things that explain why she is still single at this stage of her life. As beautiful and sexy as she is there some are very significant red flags that would eventually turn off any potential suitor.
These red flags are fairly common amongst the truly beautiful women in this world. I have seen these issues over and over with many women I dated over the years as they all seem to be common traits shared by women who are “9s” and “10s”.
Here are some of these traits, the very traits that this particular woman described in her difficulties in attracting and maintaining a long-term relationship.
Selfish attitude: it seems that many very beautiful women have this attitude of “it’s all about me!!!” going on. It’s as if they feel they are truly superior to those around them just because of their physical attributes. No guy is good enough for that long term relationship commitment and no girl is good enough to be their close friend.
Aloof and unapproachable: despite all the hogwash out there that beautiful women are lonely because men are afraid to approach them, most truly beautiful women are approached numerous times each and every day by scores of men.
Truly beautiful women who have problems with attracting and maintaining quality relationships cause this dynamic to happen.
It is their arrogance, feelings of superiority and negative social vibe they project to keep others away from them… much like a wall they put up to protect themselves.
No one is good enough: even though this particular young lady is currently dating this one guy for the past year or so, for whatever reason this boyfriend is not suitable marriage material. According to her he doesn’t make enough money, he is boring and he does not dress as to how she likes a man to dress. But she stays with him??!
Not sure why she does as she seems very disappointed in being in a relationship with this particular guy. When I asked her why she just does not break up with him I got a very vague answer of there are no quality men out there. Let’s just say I looked at her with confusion written all over my face.
Unrealistic expectations: whether I am talking to this particular beautiful Japanese woman or any truly beautiful woman, quite a bit of these ladies think…
…that the men they date must be wealthy, have a ton of money to throw at them and must be okay with not getting much in return from these women.
Translation: they expect the men to provide a very high quality lifestyle while they provide nothing of value back in return.
I think this is why many truly beautiful women end up being married several times during the course of their lifetime. These unrealistic and selfish attitudes of “give me, give me, give me more – while I do nothing for you” start to really weigh heavily on the poor son of a bitch that they eventually get married to. After a period of time the long-term boyfriend or husband decide they’ve had enough and exit!
This was the third time this particular woman approached my wife and I to have this very same conversation. And of course, we give her the very same advice each and every time. And as to be expected, she listens, she nods her head in agreement… and then goes about her business not taking our advice to heart. She will still be unmarried and lonely this time next year. How very sad!
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